Form 14: Motion for a Court Order – When Mediation Falls Short

“Divorce is the one human tragedy that reduces everything to cash.” – Rita Mae Brown

Divorce isn’t just about emotions—it’s about legal decisions that impact your future. Ideally, mediation resolves disputes, keeping things civil and cost-effective. But when discussions stall and critical issues remain unresolved, the next step is filing Form 14: Motion for a Court Order.

This legal document allows a judge to make binding decisions on matters like child custody, support payments, and non-compliance with agreements.

If you’re at this stage, you might be feeling stuck. Filing a motion sounds complex, but understanding the process can make it more manageable. This guide will walk you through Form 14—when to file, how to do it right, and common mistakes to avoid.

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What is Form 14: Motion for a Court Order?

Form 14 is a legal request asking a judge to decide on unresolved disputes in family law cases. It applies to various situations, including:

Child custody and visitation disputes

Spousal or child support enforcement

Non-compliance with existing court orders

Emergency interventions for child safety

Unlike a full trial, a motion allows quicker court intervention, making it a critical tool in urgent situations.

When Should You File Form 14?

Filing a motion isn’t always necessary. However, it may be the right step in the following cases:

Child access issues: If one parent is refusing visitation or violating a custody order.

Financial disputes: If spousal or child support isn’t being paid despite legal obligations.

Failure to follow agreements: If a separation agreement or previous court order is being ignored.

Health and safety risks: If a child’s well-being is at stake due to the other parent’s actions.

Form 14 isn’t for minor conflicts—it’s for serious disputes where all other options have failed.

How to File Form 14: Step-by-Step Guide

1. Gather Supporting Documents

Strong evidence is key. Depending on your case, you may need:

Affidavits (Form 14A)—a sworn statement explaining your request.

Financial statements—required if the dispute involves support payments.

Police reports or messages—if there’s a history of non-compliance or safety concerns.

Previous court orders or agreements—to show existing legal commitments.

2. Complete Form 14 Accurately

Ensure the form includes:

What you’re requesting (e.g., custody change, enforcement of support payments).

The reasons for your request.

Any past attempts to resolve the issue outside of court.

Mistakes or missing details can delay your case, so accuracy is crucial.

3. Serve the Other Party

You must officially deliver a copy of Form 14 and supporting documents to your ex. Acceptable service methods include registered mail or a process server, ensuring proof of delivery.

4. File the Motion in Court

After serving the other party, submit the completed form and documents to the family court handling your case. Check for any required filing fees beforehand.

5. Attend the Court Hearing

A judge will review your motion and both parties will have a chance to present their arguments. This isn’t a full trial, but it’s important to be prepared. If you have a lawyer, they will represent you; if not, ensure you can clearly explain your case with supporting evidence.

Common Mistakes to Avoid

Filing out of frustration—Courts don’t look favorably on unnecessary motions.

Lack of evidence—A motion without supporting documents is weak.

Vague or emotional affidavits—Stick to facts and clear explanations.

Incorrect service procedures—If the other party isn’t served properly, your case may be delayed or dismissed.

Can Mediation Prevent the Need for a Motion?

Mediation should always be considered before court action. It offers:

A neutral space to resolve disputes outside of court.

Professional guidance from trained mediators.

A faster, cost-effective alternative to legal proceedings.

Braystone Mediation specializes in helping couples resolve conflicts efficiently. Our flat-fee model keeps costs predictable, allowing couples to focus on agreements rather than legal battles.

However, when mediation fails or the other party refuses to cooperate, filing Form 14 becomes necessary.

Moving Forward with Confidence

Divorce isn’t just about ending a marriage—it’s about protecting your rights, ensuring fairness, and securing the best future for your children. Form 14 provides a legal pathway when cooperation is no longer an option.

Before filing, consider if the issue can be resolved through discussion or mediation. If not, approach the court with a well-documented, fact-based case. And remember, preparation is your best asset—whether in mediation or in front of a judge.

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